Friday, November 26, 2010

Sunshine and Saltwater


I'm finally back in the US of A after my 3 month trip to Costa Rica, and I have to say the whole experience was refreshing. It's so nice to step outside of your 'reality' and be able to look at it from an outsider's perspective. You learn to recognize what's important and what's not...what you can live with and what you can live without.

For three months, Adam and I lived in the tiny beach town of Santa Teresa on the Pacific side of Costa Rica. Just imagine dirt roads, surf shops, tiny grocery stores and lots of stray dogs...that was about it. Every day, we woke up early with the sun, went for a surf (yes! I can surf now), biked all over the peninsula, cooked meals in our bungalow, did lots of laundry by hand, played cards with friends and enjoyed the beautiful sunsets.

The first month was a bit of an adjustment. It was strange to be in a town and not know anyone. Locals assumed we were transient tourists and because we rented a house, we didn't get the opportunity to socialize with people like we would if we stayed at a hostel or hotel. It also rained a lot in September, so we spent lots of time on the porch reading and working on our Spanish.

It wasn't until October that things started to fall into place. We started to make friends with some of the locals who owned restaurants and shops, and we met a few other people who were visiting long-term. We became friends with a couple from London named Harry and Jen (who both quit their jobs in Environmental Law and Project Management to be able to travel). Then they introduced us to a professional poker player from Florida named Kevin. We quickly became the best of friends and spent lots of time together. Ironically, I inadvertently picked up a British accent in a Spanish-speaking country. :)

October flew by...we had a total of 5 groups of friends visit us, including Adam's parents. We went ziplining, hiked in the rainforest, took a fishing boat out into the ocean with one of the local fishermen and went to a wildlife refugee where I got to hold the baby howler monkeys. It's amazing to be that up close and personal to nature.

By the time November rolled around, I had traded in my beginner board (7'2") for a more advanced board (6'6"). Adam and I went surfing every day and tried to keep up with Harry and Jen (who surf regularly in England). Our trip flew by and by the time it was all said and done, I had very mixed emotions about leaving. It was bittersweet. On one hand I missed my family and friends (and embarrassingly enough, trips to Target)...but on the other hand, I had really grown to appreciate a simple and healthy way of life. I was getting so much sunshine, exercise, fresh food and amazing experiences.

Being in Costa Rica taught me to take life as it comes, to not let the daily stresses of life consume me, to realize that I don't need all the things that our consumer society teaches us to 'need' and to appreciate the people that God places in your path to help and encourage you (no matter where you are in the world). I am grateful to many of the kind-hearted people in Santa Teresa who helped us along the way.

Now that I am back, I have been looking for a new apartment in New York (since my previous lease ended and everything went into storage). I am hoping to finalize my living arrangements on my return from Atlanta for Thanksgiving. NYC is the complete opposite of laid-back Santa Teresa...but I will try my best to adjust, while still keeping the 'pura vida' mentality within. I am looking forward to being back in the city and starting things fresh.

So, keep me in your prayers (as I have lots of cold weather to adjust to in the next few weeks), and remember to keep things simple and stress-free this holiday season. And if you don't know how to do that, I'd recommend hopping a flight to Central America. You'll understand what I mean.

Happy Holidays! Miss and love you all!

Lauren







Saturday, June 5, 2010

Musings from the Penthouse

Wow...it's been almost a year since I've written and a lot has transpired. I'm beginning to realize that I have no intention of slowing down or staying put anytime soon. I need change. I crave change. And I'm proud to say that I embrace change with open arms.


Last time I wrote, I had just returned from my European backpacking adventure. I was 'slightly' tan (which is quite the feat in MY world), slightly more cultured and ten million times more well-fed. I had tried mussels for the first time and it was love at first bite. I had tasted the real-deal Italian pizza on a hillside in Italy. And I had sipped the finest French wine in a tiny village overlooking the mountains. OH...and I met a few cool people along the way. Life was good.


Then of course reality hit, and that nasty little black cloud found its way atop my head. I came back to the United States to the news that my neurology conferences were post-poned indefinitely due to the uncertainty of the healthcare reform situation in our country. This was of course very disappointing and very scary news, considering I felt comfortable enough to quit my Wall St. job to pursue this neurology thing full-time.


I spent many months penny-pinching. Also, I should note that my roommate stole my credit card and tried to use it to purchase $1400 worth of clothing and accessories at Louis Vuitton in Las Vegas at Caesar's Palace. Needless to say, myself and the remaining innocent roommate moved out ASAP, leaving the guilty party with two new subleasers (lucky subleasers). What a mess. BUT, on the bright side, I moved to Brooklyn, and now looking back, it was the right move for me. I ABSOLUTELY love Brooklyn, and now I am closer to Adam (who I am still dating - it will be two years in October, by the way).


But like I always seem to do (much to my own surprise every time), I quickly bounced back. I got my real estate license in New York, and started working as an agent, focusing mainly on residential and commercial rentals. I was the top-earner in my office the first month, and I have to tell you, I might have patted myself on the back a few times. Since then, the firm I am working for has proved itself to be very unprofessional and cut-throat (obviously, this IS real estate, after all) and I am weighing my options as to whether I will continue on with them. In addition to the firm, I've also started working with a property management company called Campus Apartments. I lease out student housing in Brooklyn and Manhattan. My office is in the penthouse lounge on the 25th floor of a high-rise in Brooklyn Heights, overlooking the Manhattan skyline and the Statue of Liberty. A girl couldn't ask for more really. I enjoy the girls I work with, and I get to do promotions throughout the city. Last week, I went to Good Morning America's Summer Concert Series and saw P. Diddy perform. Not my favorite artist in the world, but nonetheless, much better than staring at a computer in the office all day.

So other than the sweltering days of a summer spent in the city, I have to say that I am fairly content with where I've ended up. I am in a healthy relationship with a wonderful guy, I have a beautiful apartment one block away from Prospect Park, I have a new cat named Walter who loves to cuddle with me and I am proud to say that I am close to the 2 year mark of life in the city. How times flies...

Oh...and I plan on starting a new blog soon to chronicle all my travel adventures! So stay tuned...

Love you all,

LAUREN